Many of us, do not accept a relapse. We think that by accepting it, we are bringing shame on our selves, our technique, on our last therapist (whom we have already praised as successful in curing us!) etc. etc. But let us realise that Relapse is very common and it is not our fault or anybody else's fault. THIS is just the nature of the stammering. This is why, we need to adopt a life style change - and practice on a regular basis whatever may have helped us- Vipassna, Theater, SHG - anything. Your post brings out this fact very honestly. If we are stammering again after few months or years- there is NO shame. There is nothing to lose your heart or courage. We just need to accept the fact and do whatever it takes to help ourselves. Thanks for the honest sharing..
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Thank you Sandesh! It is the community- each one of you, who has made it possible. Best,
Many of us, do not accept a relapse. We think that by accepting it, we are bringing shame on our selves, our technique, on our last therapist (whom we have already praised as successful in curing us!) etc. etc.
But let us realise that Relapse is very common and it is not our fault or anybody else's fault. THIS is just the nature of the stammering. This is why, we need to adopt a life style change - and practice on a regular basis whatever may have helped us- Vipassna, Theater, SHG - anything.
Your post brings out this fact very honestly. If we are stammering again after few months or years- there is NO shame. There is nothing to lose your heart or courage. We just need to accept the fact and do whatever it takes to help ourselves.
Thanks for the honest sharing..
that is indeed a truth...and we should accept it...thanks for sharing...
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