May 1, 2014

Ek aur bada kadam apni acceptance ki seedi par

Have done a brave Job at my Office Given a Motivational Speech Regarding Who I am with my stammering in-front of 45 people 


me and my HR

 1. Before the Speech :: First of all, there was no event or function at my office it was just an insect of my mind that Come what may, I shall surely  give one speech but for preparing my mind to go and talk to HR,  I took 2-3 days and finally I went to my HR and I have said that I am PWS(person who stutter) and as I believe that I am very skilled in communication so I want to check myself that how much fear comes, when I talk in-front of many people she said that's very brave Vishal and its a very gr8 step. 

My Fear :: I had 2-5% fear 
My Confidence :: high
My Expectation :: zero
My Irrational thoughts :: 10-15%
My Belief :: 80-90%

2. About my Speech :: I hadn't prepared my speech but  my speech was superb and  one thing I would say that things was automatic I mean in between of my speech my mouth and my words going very smoothly even I thought what is happening :) and I have started my speech with slow rate of speech after getting a little confidence then I started to make myself more flexible to share things during my speech and at last all the people gave me hats off for my brave step and initiative and the duration of my speech was 4-5 minutes.

My Speech Contains Following things.  

1. Intro
2. My Ability
3. My Hobbies
4. My Extra curricular Activity
5. What is Stammering
6. How we can make our weakest point into strongest point with example
7. Why Acceptance is necessary
8. Why Therapies are not so Good
9. My achievements
10. appreciated all to listen me carefully.

3. After the speech my thoughts :: I was feeling very confident the whole day and still I talk to everyone Sikander sir, Sachin sir and to all my friends. I have shared my thoughts and Really it was an awesome life changing moment.

My Confidence :: Yes increase !
My Belief :: 90-100%
My Expectation :: Zero
My Acceptance :: Increased
My Irrational thoughts :: Decreased


thanks to all, thanks to TISA for giving me a beautiful platform of SHG and many more things.






  

20 comments:

jasbir singh said...

Heartiest congratulations Vishal for the bold step.
Please keep it up and motivate others to take similar actions for coming out of their comfort zones.
All the best.

Amitsingh Kushwah said...

Very good initiative... Congrats Vishal...

Dhruv Gupta said...

Congrats Vishal! You're an inspiration...Keep it up :)

sachin said...

Congrats vishal! Such steps are much, much, much more helpful than therapies.. and it costs nothing! I hope many more young people will learn from your example..

vishal gupta said...

yeah you are right that we can be our best therapist :) and it cost no money at all and it makes us more stronger and happiest person

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Tarak said...

"Become Your Own Therapist" would be a great catch phrase! Kudos Vishal!

Lalit Chawla said...

Congrats Vishal! During my time of service I had no idea about TISA , but some how I used to talk in a group without any fear or shame. I really appreciate your efforts and hard work that you are putting to help others as well as yourself.

Anonymous said...

Hats off to you....

Happy for u buddy.

Jeetu

Manimaran said...

Congratulations Vishal!

Vishnu Bansal said...

congrats vishal..............

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kanpur vikings said...

really brave vishal......gud going

Virendra said...

This is great, beyond words!! To take initiative to talk in office on this topic itself requires lot of courage and you have done it means you have surpassed all barriers. So there is no limit now what you can achieve as you have crossed the highest step in your goal.

jasbir singh said...

Did you also sing a song or not? Add it next time it will increase your confidence.
I miss your songs a lot. Desperately want to meet you.

kavish said...

Bravo Vishal!!!

Harshvir said...

Very nice attempt. Keep it up.

Harshvir said...

Nice job. Be motivated & keep motivating.

vishal gupta said...

by the way jagbir sir I had sung a song also and that was so brilliant as per people comments. the song was "abhi mujhme kahin baaki thodi se hai jindagi"

jitendra nimbekar said...

The most important part in the process was that your approach was proactive. If you decide to take bull by horn then things would automatically start rolling in your favour. Although confidence is proportional to the size of achievement. But you can gain the same amount of confidence through more nos of small achievements on a day to day basis. It is important that you must keep on doing such things very often. Big applause for your effort vishal