March 24, 2014

Please advise my young friend..

Receieved an email from a young friend. Please leave your advice as comments..
"sir aj to gajab ho gya . aj mai class pr tha sir ne slide padne ke liye  bola for any one . maine apna hat utha diya .. bina kuchh soche samjhe . kyuki mai stammering se bahut paresan ho chuka tha .. jo hoga dekhunga ..
  mai slide padte samay bhut haklaya . kyoki maine puri class ko jate hi bta diya tha mai haklata hu.. meri jay prakas sunda sir se bat huyi thi..mere andar ajib si himmat ayi . mai badnam hone ke liye gya tha .. lekin aisa kuchh nhi huaa . !!!
slide padna to thik hai leikin mere ko sir se dout puchhna hai .. kaise karu sir ..?
plz advice me"

6 comments:

sachin said...

Jab itna kar liya to ab kya bacha hai?
Thoda hakla ke sir se sawal bhi puchh lo.. Jyada hi mushkil ho to pehla sawal likh kar puch lo..

Amitsingh Kushwah said...

प्रिय साथी, यह एक बहुत ही सुन्दर और अच्छी शुरूआत है। आपकी हिम्मत को सलाम। कई साथी तो हकलाहट के बारे में सब जानते हुए भी दूसरों के सामने खुलकर हकलाकर बोल ही नहीं पाते। अब आपने इतनी हिम्मत जुटा ली है तो थोड़ा और जुटाइए, हकलाते हुए ही सही, सभी टीचर, दोस्तों और परिचितों से खुलकर बातचीत करने की कोशिश कीजिए। साथ ही हकलाहट के डर, भय और शर्मिंदगी को भूल जाइए।

Thinkbroad said...

Did you jusst try to write hindi in English. I didnt get a word.

Amit Singh said...

Dear Friend, Don't get panic. Just start slow and be confident. Everything will be ok.

lalit chawla said...

One has to take first step of his/her own, and then the rest will follow of its own. You have done it with courage, very soon you will be astonished to see that how best you can speak.

Zeshan Ahmed said...

Yeh bohat asan hai meray dost. Aap sirf yeh baat zehan se nikal do ke aap ne haklana nahi hai boltay samay, jab tak yeh baat aapke zehan mein rahe gi, aap mein sawal poochne ki himmat nahi paida ho gi. Jo bhi sawal hai, aap sirf hath uthao, or poochna shuru kar do, baqi aap haklatay ho bhi to kuch nahi, koi kuch nahi kahey ga jo aqal rakhta ho ga :)
yeh bohat aasan hai, sirf shurwat mein diqat ho gi, lekin aahista aahista halway ki tarhan asaan ho jaye ga :)