October 10, 2012

TISA events are doing miracle



Just 3 months before, I attended first TISA event - communication workshop at delhi on 14-15 july2012.
इस workshop ने मुझे जीवन में पहली बार हकीकत से रूबरू करवाया & आईना दिखाया कि मै अभी कहॉ खडा हूँ - मै आश्चर्यचकित था ये देखकर कि ना दिल डर से धडक रहा हैना जबान सूख रही हैइन सारे pws के बीच हकलाते हुए ना लज्जा हैना घृणाना भय और ना ही ग्लानि है फ़िर भी इतनी हकलाहट कैसे हो रही है?
that communications workshop was निष्पक्ष आईना  for आत्ममंथन  .
इस workshop की दूसरी प्रभावी activity थी राह चलते लोगो से हकलाहट के बारे मे सवाल पूछना  पहली बार ये प्रत्यक्ष जानने का मौका मिला कि हकलाने पर लोगो की प्रतिक्रिया क्या होती हैये जाना कि हकलाने में लज्जा-घृणा-भय जैसी कोई बात ही नहीं है  people takes it very easy then any PWS.I attended and returned with changed mindset. But after some days, I again returned on same old track.
second communication workshop, I attended at herbertpur on 1-3 september. हरबर्टपुर मे सचिन सर ने वो सिखाया जो हज़ारो रुपये लेकर भी 100% इलाज का झूंटा दावा करने वाले नहीं सिखाते  मैने AIIMS,आमेरबेंगलोर से speech therapy ली है पर सचिन सर का fluency shaping techniques, vocal card etc. पर अथाह ज्ञान देखकर हैरानी हुई  और सचिन सर वो सारा ज्ञान निस्वार्थ भाव से हम सबमें उडेलने को बेताब थे 
क्या सम्मोहन से हकलाहट का इलाज संभव है??
I read many hypnotism books and attended some session. किसी को सम्मोहित करने के लिये क्या किया जाता है- generally उसकी आंखों मे आंखे डालकर उसे निर्देश देना शुरु किया जाता है  Sir ने जोर दिया आंखों मे आंखे डालकर बात करो , keep eye contact during speaking  and friends, really eye contact reduces stammering to a large extent. It is like boon to Baali (a character in ramayn epic, who had capacity  to extract half power of his rivals and add in himself)
Sir ने पहली बार एहसास करवाया एक खिलोने का (our speech system i.e. jaw, tongue, vocal card etc) जो भगवान ने हमे दिया है और उससे खेलना सिखाया सिखाया - अलग अलग ध्वनि प्रबलता (Volume) और सुर (Pitch) के साथ.
So I am doing only 3 things
1. Surya namaskar (for physical fitness)  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0pFlw7kaikg
2. Keep eye contact (hypnotism)
3. Playing with speech system with variations in volume & pitch (for hard word or any song)
http://www.ehow.com/video_2385250_the-mi-ma-mo-mu.html
& results are really miraculous. And Thanks TISA to provide all PWS a big platform to enhance comfort zone as well as communication skill. 

Hemant K-kumar
P-Punjab

5 comments:

sachin said...

Thanks Hemant! We can help each other- and this is the basis of many self-help movements, both in east and west..

J P Sunda said...

Very true Hemant ji. Meeting other pws is the best therapy!!

Hemant K-Kumar said...

j.p. sunda ji,
i used to go to Aamer speech therapy centre every weekends up to one year & Met many pws also.
So I can't say that it is only due to meet of other pws.
TISA event's impression becomes manifolds due to messmerising personality as well as fluency of you & Sachin sir, u both are true leader, very courageous &
shows other pws also to go in public and talk about stammering. by this act shame, hatreds,fear, guilty removes, >80% recovery automatically start to come.

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Hemant K-Kumar said...

एक कहावत है
* दिया तले अँधेरा होता है *
तो क्या कोई उस अँधेरे को देखकर दीपक को ही बुझा देता है? या दीपक जलाते ही नहीं हैं ? Obviously नहीं. हम फ़िर भी दीपक जलाते हैं ।
लेकिन generally PWS ऐसा ही करते है - अरे मै तो अपना नाम भी नहीं ले सकता तो आगे क्या करुंगा और सपने देखना बंद |
अँधेरे को देखकर दीपक मे तेल डालना ही बंद.... परिणाम- अँधेरे का दायरा बढता जाता है प्रकाश का दायरा सिकुडता जाता है ।
TISA teaches अँधेरा और उजाला , दोनो को स्वीकार करना और उम्मीद की शमाएं जलाये रखना