April 7, 2012

Zindagi milegi na dobaara...

Hi Friends,

I am Jitu, a MCA graduate working in TCS as a software enginner ,I have stammering from mychildhood.The main problem I have faced for this at the time of my roll call in
school or college .

I used to practice mentally "yes Sir , yes sir ,yes sir " many times before my roll call some times I was able to call, sometimes not just I was standing.

I came to blr in JULY 2011.I had a chance to go back to Bhubaneswar(TCS) odisha my home town but at that time I came to know about SHG blr
then I decided to stay here atleast 2 yrs to try overcoming my stammering problem .

Though I am very homesick still I tried to stay here because of SHG Blr.I had decided to come SHG blr on Feb-26-2012, but in that morning I was confusing should I come or not because I was not open/free to my stammering at last did not join.

In that evening I felt very bad because I could not join the meeting .

Then next sunday 04-04-2012 any how I joined the meeting and enjoyed the meeting. Schedule for that day was like this

1. Self Introduction
2.Group Reading and then single reading
3.Some discussion

As of now the most valuable lesson i have learnt

1."how to enjoy ur life with stammering " and
2."to free and open to stammering".

Previously I used to avoid marketing , I am doing marketing for our mess.

In one month I have learnt some technique as
1.bouncing
2.slow reading and speaking
3.breathing exercise


The one line that motivates me is : "If u donot help yourself , No one will help U" "If u help yourself , then many people will there to help U" .

And one thing I have learnt from meeting is "zindagi na milegi dobara just USE it and ENJOY do not waste it".

Now I am enjoying my day to day LIFE , Now I am not tensed/worried about my stammering , I have to just practice that's it.

At last Thanks to Dinesh Sir who is trying to give a new life to us ,because of him only the meeting is running smoothly .

God bless you , go ahead .May God full fill all your wishes.

Now I am happy with this LIFE what I have , not worry about what I do not have .

****** HariOmm ********

POST BY JITU. A MEMBER OF BANGALORE SHG

2 comments:

Rajesh V said...

@Jitu---"Zindagi milegi na dobaara" Well said brother.
All The best for future endeavors.

@Karthik--When is Banglore SHG visiting Hyderabad Group?? :)

@Dinesh--When Hyd-Banglore SHG meet happens I wish Sachin ji shall also come here :)

You Both Guys are Rocking and making Banglore SHG Rocking too..
All The Best :)

sachin said...

Beautiful. This is Self-help at its best! SHGBLR deserves all the praise! A small group of motivated people can achieve much more than a huge crowd..