Hello to all my stutter friends. Perhaps I am writing a post here after a little long time. I really enjoyed my first national conference which I attended with my friends. It was never forgettable experience for me. I enjoyed every moment which I spend there. Now stammering doesn’t seem like a problem for me because I have so many friends like me and now I know which path has to follow. Each and every person there was unique and gave us a strong message that how we can live happily, even with obstacles in our life. Thanks to all my cool friends and guru’s by help of them now I feel so much lighter, open and better. Today I want to share a little humor with you people which happened with me last week.
I was coming back to my hostel with my friends. On the way I had to say something to them. I was unable to utter one particular word. Every time I tried to speak the word; only aaaaaaae… sound comes. I tried few times more but only aaaaaaae sound comes in a stretch manner And Every time I tried to speak , my friends became quite to listen me, and Then I say only aaaaaaa…After couple of more attempts I was able to spoke out that word. It was “ATM” And then we all had a great laugh. I joked them that I can't speak simple words sometimes because I love to face difficult one. Then I spoke this word again few times in a fluent and relax manner and gave them proof that “Dekha, mai isse aasani se bol skata hu, wo tho mje tumhe hasana tha isliye. ", And again we had a big laugh together. If I would have to face similar type of situation few times ago (before joining TISA) then it would be a quite painful and shameful for me. But now I can laugh on my stammering and also can laugh others. What is benefit of weeping or leaving the work if someone laughs? Is it bad to laugh?? NO. It is only bad when others are laughing and we are damn serious. Join others to enjoy a great laugh. It is also a part of acceptance if you love the way you speak.