Thing which i dislike most is dis-fluency ,i dont want to dis-fluent, not even in single word in a year.i feel lot of pain whenever i become dis-fluent either in fort of people or alone .
suddenly question arises in my mind why dis-fluency giving me so pain and what factor working behind it ,alone dis-fluency is not so powerful which can ruin my life. after a deep thought and revising my past life i came to know that... I am getting pain because of two label which i attached with dis-fluency, they are
1>feeling to intense inferiority complex while/after stammering and
2>my listener will think how pathetic i am (i hate to be pathetic)
so i realize basic problem is attaching wrong label with dis-fluency.............but same time it is very difficult to remove these labels and still working on it(soon post result of this work)...
fortunately i got one pdf file in our yahoogroup (Mind-To-Muscle Pattern) which can help to remove these labels..............Mind-To-Muscle Pattern is 5 page file and one can complete this in 20 min(contain flow chat ect)
3 comments:
Yes, I recall Pam asking Vivek, if anyone has ever suggested that stammering (among men) was CUTE.. I mean, we can use other labels: He looks so cute when he stammers and acts a little confused.. She looked so cute trying to tell her name and getting stuck.. etc. Why dont we use such phrases?
Hoping to learn from your experiments..
So in the end, everything turns out to be nothing more than JUST thoughts and thoughts and more thoughts!
very good post for those who want to work on acceptance... Thanks Lalit for sharing your emotions!
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