May 7, 2012

Amazing experience of my stuttering, outside india

Dear PWS,

After a long time, i am posting my thoughts and want to share my amazing experience with you. I could not imagine that my stuttering took me to a long distance and a long path of inevitable confidence.

Under the guidance of  many TISA members, I again started my stuttering confession with many people in united states.

Encounter with bank executive.
I visited one of the bank in US. The executive repeatedly asked me several questions about my visit and i was enjoying answering it. At the end of the conversation, I told him that I am a stutterer. He didn;t realize initially, then i started voluntary stuttering in front of him. He was looking to my words that is coming from my trembling mouth. He was eventually maintaining eye contact with me. He stated that there is no problem with the people who stutter. He was glad that he was one of the first person to whom i had done my voluntary stuttering experiment.

Encounter with Manager.
Earlier, It was not so difficult for me to confess my stuttering issue with many people in india. Since i traveled to US, I was not so comfortable to confess my stammering problem with my manager. As a matter of fact, if he understand my problem then he might throw me out of the office and eventually out of country..

Then i realize the picture of ACCEPTANCE. what if, i don't do it now or what if, i let the situation as it is The very next day i confess my stuttering problem not only to my managers but to a group of managers. My managers appreciated my with immense pleasure and described me as an inspiring person.

My stuttering problem spread across many people in my near area and i was getting call to help people who has similar kind of problem. I am glad that I am now in such a position to help people understand the nature of stuttering and explaining the way of technique to overcome this fear.


Regards,
Prakash
HAKLAYO, Magar Pyaar Se

5 comments:

j jasbir singh said...

Very right Mr. Parkash. Acceptance is the only first key to success. And second by helping others you will notice one day that your blocks have disappeared. But my request even then do not stop helping others, because it was the strong tool which worked.
All the best.

Mohit kumar said...

Doing Voluntary in front of any people is always a hard work to do and you have done this very well, you win respect from my side. I think Helping others is always a sweetest think to do.
That's what TISA and its member are doing.

sachin said...

Wonderful!

J P Sunda said...

Prakash, you have understood acceptance in its TRUE sense. Its all about going out and DOING what you need to do. Well done!

GORAV DATTA - HAKLA said...

you did a wonderful job by accepting and helping others who are facing the same problem