Hello Friends - My name is Romi n m frm Mumbai. Yestrday I met Ravi* and Navin*.
Ravi wants to be an actor but he is very scared of stuttering. He is nli 22 n he is working in a BPO. Ravi has visited many speech therapists n loves wasting his money on the therapy. Yesterday i taught him speech techniques like Bouncing, Prolongation, Voluntary stuttering, Pausin n breathing techniques. After following d techniques i felt, he is very gud in maintaining eye contact but jerks a lot while speaking. He is always smiling but only wid stutterers.
On the other hand Navin is suffering a lot from stammering. He is only 20 n in sybcom. What I felt abt him- he is very determined 2 work hard. He wants to do MBA but bcuz of stammering wants 2 quit it. My advice 2 him is that if u follow d speech techniques wid proper advice n determination ul find a big change in u n life wil go 4 a toss.
According to me Stammering takes place in d mind n comes out in words. Whn v go 4 job interviews v r not confident enough 2 give our best and our prime focus is that I must not stutter- n in that process v do stutter a lot! If u stammer, then stammer wid confidence. Accept it. Dont run. We shuld b lucky 2 have a girlfriend liks stammering.The difference between stammering n ppl is tht ppl might come n go but stammering will always b der 2 support u n wil give u d courage 2 improve yourself. Instead of cursing your stammering you should work on it and motivate yourself in each n every way. V al gt 1 chance in life so v shuld nt waste tht opportunity n shuld accept it gracefully. Life is short so enjoi every phase of it.Stammering has taught me d meaning of life n has given me d strength of being patient n helpin oders.
"Haklao magar pyar se".
(* Pseudonys to ensure privacy of these new members. Ed.)
Romi came to TISA (Dehradun) 2 yrs ago. He learned to help himself and in the true spirit of TISA, began counseling other PWS, back in Mumbai- as a true service to humanity in need. If you are in Mumbai, feel free to contact him.
http://t-tisa.blogspot.com/2011/03/bravo-romi-pa-ji.html
http://t-tisa.blogspot.com/2009/11/i-came-i-spoke-i-conquered.html
4 comments:
Feels great to c a post from Mumbai after a longtime! Trying to help others will help you even more in the long run! Also if possible, do ask the SHG members (including u) to join us in Goa.
Nice to see post from you Mr. Romi
It helps and encourages a lot.
hi my name is rameshbabu I am facing stammering problem from my childhood I am in Mumbai kharghar I want to meet u brother.presently I am doing MBA in itm .I am facing lot of problems in presentations.please help me.my email id is kopparthi.babu@gmail.com my no 9702483177
hi brother my name is rameshbabu I am facing stammering problem from my childhood I am in Mumbai kharghar I want to meet u please help me my id kopparthi.babu@gmail.com my no 9702483177 I am doing MBA in itm I facing lot of problems in presentation
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