September 5, 2013

Accepting stammer after work shop.. and a suggestion.

Accepting stammer after work shop.. and a suggestion.

      It has been almost 2 months since I attended the 3 day workshop. We had lot of fun there and made new friends.
           The old bug of complacency has affected me meanwhile!(Less use of technique and even lesser practice)

      But one thing has changed :) . I am able to do such tasks which were earlier almost impossible for me.Like going to government offices and getting my work done after running around from one table to the other!  

      Its not that I have been cured of stammering after communication workshop. Its just that I have given myself freedom to stammer. No more self-criticism for me. Nowadays I make it a point to tell everything which I intend to tell, even though I stammer more sometimes in trying to do so. But I am able to make the meaning clear to the listener.

       I know the stammer is more since I am venturing into an unknown territory.I try not to stop at a feared word,I take more time (of listener!) and try to complete the whole conversation.

    I need to revisit the practices learn t in communication workshop.I invite other pws to join me to practice the techniques online in Hindi,as many of us use hindi in our day to day conversation. Mr. Amit Singhji had started weekly online SHG in Hindi.Is it discontinued? Why not revive it?
      
     My suggestion is that we start bi-weekly Hindi online SHG on skype(maybe sunday morning and any other week-day at night). All the comm. workshop participants can practice the wonderful techniques learn t there. Other people who are new to TISA can benefit from the demonstration of techniques by PWS who have attended the comm. workshop.


Please leave your valuable comments and lets prepare a blue-print.

Abhishek Kumar

Email: abhikumar.bsnl@gmail.com

Mobile: 9418002112

Skype id: abhi.3561

Location: Shimla (HP)

6 comments:

sachin said...

Thanks Amit for a very honest and fair assessment of what TISA has been offering freely since 2008 (CommWS)..
You have grasped the concept of Acceptance and Communication (over mere fluency) very well.
I will definitely participate in your Hindi skype sewa once a week (sunday preferably).. You and Amit should organise it..
Best wishes!

Hemant Kumar "हृदय" said...

thanks abhisek ji for this wonderful post,
you have grasped the true concept of TISA.

Amit singh kuswaha 09300939758 is working on skype hindi session.he remains online sunday 9-11 am .

lalit said...

nice post Abhishek , Acceptance is bliss not only for stammering but in all sphere of life.

jasbir singh said...

Dear Abhishek,
I keep coming to Shimla with official work. I would love to meet you during one of my coming visits and discuss on communication.
All the Best.

abhishek said...

Thanks Sachin Sir, you are cordially invited to Amit's Hindi skype Sewa this sunday (9 am to 11 am). I was not aware that its on.

Thanks Jasbir Sir. Please let me know when you visit Shimla next
time . I would love to talk and learn from you.

Thanks Hemantji. I shall come for the Hindi skype call from this sunday onwards(9 am to 11 am).

Thanks Lalit.

vinay kumar tripathi said...

Nice post abhishek ji i want to join skype sewa in hindi