First the weather report! The weather was just perfect, to take the bike out and head out towards the most important activity for Sunday - The all important SHG (Self help group) meet.I reached the venue at about 10:15, I was pleasantly surprised to see Subodh who had already reached and was doing his last minute preparation for his prepared speech today.
We were soon joined by Rohit and Animesh. For the last meet of 2012 we had a healthy attendance. Animesh, Abhinav, Mayank, Rohit, Sairam, Pramod, Subodh, Anshuman, Kishen, Chandrashekar, Chandan and I were the attendees.
Without wasting anytime we directly kick started on the reading activity. Today we read the 6th Chapter of AHJ. During the read following topics under chapter 6 were highly appreciated by everyone.1) "Breathing" - most vital part to produce sound. Before talking breathe..
2) "Valsalva reflex" - when speaking is perceived as a threat, brains instructs to
to hold the breath. This is body defence to either fight or to take flight, under
Valsalva affect body is not in a condition to produce sound - We did few practicals on this!
3) "Pausing" - We practiced that with meaningful pauses, speech is enhanced and quite effortless.
4) "Active Listening" - Listening is 90% of the communication.
As we had many participants today, we just had brief introduction after this. Each participant had to add an Adjective to his name and spell out loud. The next participant had to remember all the names (Adjective+names) before him and then proceed to add this adjective.
"Active Animesh" and then say "Amazing" Abhinav".. in this way the last participant should recal all the names used before him !! :-)We jumped to the prepared speeches after this, Kishen was the time keeper, Chandrashekar noted the filler words and Chandan was the grammarian. They read out the objective of their roles.
First speaker for the day was Subodh, he spoke passionately about "Love", it was his first speech and it was evident that he spent a lot of effort on the practice. He was evaluated by Abhinav. Abhinav was all praise for Subodh.
quite a story teller. He brings up mystic ideas and conveys them well. He spoke about the concept of "Hollow earth". The speech was very informative and captivating. Rohit was the evaluator and he highlighted improvement areas well for the Pramod.I was the last speaker of the day! I was quite clumsy and shared some of the blunders I made.
I emphasised that itis important to make blunders!! :-) Sairam did catch my blunders in the speech and suggested some improvements.We then moved to table topic session. This is an activity to practice impromptu speaking.
Participants are called randomly one by one and are assigned a topic on which they have to speak for a minimum for 2 mins.Some of the interesting topics were..
What will you do if you become the PM of the country?
What is purpose of your life according to you?
What will you do if you were Dhone? etc
We enjoyed this session thoroughly and often broke into uncontrollable laugters for the responses received!! :-)Kishen (Time Keeper), Chandrashekar(Filler counter), Chandan (Grammarian) presented their findings to the group and were meticulous in their role plays.
In our last segment, we had a Group discussion. Sairam is an expert co-ordinator for this. He split the group in to 2 and threw open the forum with a controversial question.Why are we so inclined towards English Language/Culture? The good and bad effects of it.
The best part was, he ensured everyone had their say and did not let anyone to monopolise the discussion. All were given equal and fair chance to speak. He interrupted fequenctly and smoothly conducted the group discussion. Kudos to him for that.
This is how we wound up yet another awesome Bangalore SHG meet..
Spread the message, spread the cheer, join a SHG and dispel the fear! :-) See ya.
Dinesh (98800 50526)
dinesh.daredevil @ gmail . com