October 6, 2012

Encounter with GIRLS!!! lolzzzzzz

Hi folks,

It is long time for me,since posting something here.

Well this time, i am here with some sweet n spicy masala post,but, 100% genuine!!!

Sure,it is a tensed issue for all stammerers to be comfortable with opposite sex peoples while speaking as far as stammering  is concern.

After the break up with my long long term love interest, i tried to move ahead with another girl, but KNOCKED DOWN brutally.

So one night, being so much frustrated - JOB,BOSS,PARENTS,STAMMERING.........i just woke up in the mid night and started my laptop googled some dating sites to have some fun in life..........

And, i immediately grabbed the paid membership for - UNLIMITED CHAT for a week at some site.

As i am good in written communication (i know, as you guys keep telling me always), so without much effort, i get few girls to talk to........

After some talk, i come to know that a decent amount of girls were using fake information, and they all accepted the fact before me as they found me a GOOD GENUINE GUY  ;-)  (i am not lying...really they said so)

They said that generally it is dangerous to disclose genuine information on dating sites.

Anyways, as we talked over net for sometime.....few of them immediately gave me their contact info to talk to.........i was quite surprised as i still used to think that to get a girl's contact number from her is like climbing a big mountain, if not the mount everest atleast.....

And behaving like a true soldier, i just get in this WAR immediately (come on,talking to a unknown girl for date,for a stammerer boy is not anything less than a war)

so, the number was 4....i talked to 4 girls.....

Let me give the brief digest of my experiences with them :-

1- she was delhite girl..but not that modern.....i think, she was seeking a husband or so.......after talk for 3-4 times, she said that i stammer a lot and she said that she cant continue with me...

2- she was an educated girl...but not that modern.........also looking for a husband, i guess.......after some brief talk, she said that she don't wanna continue,without giving any reason....

3- a MBA graduate in HR, she said that being a HR professional, i can judge people and i know you are a good man..........her point of view towards stammering was that i should practice therapies and i should try to be more and more fluent

4- a working professional, very down to earth girl.......she even googled some stammering and tell me that i should try speech therapy for it..............being unaware of the fact i already tried few....



So what i concluded is that although a girl wants a perfect partner,but,still if we can accept our stammering, then she will too accept us as we are........as she will be knowing ourselves as a whole......a lot more than a stammerer!!!








5 comments:

GORAV DATTA - Be " EXACTLY " who you are said...

very interesting post .... not every girl thinks bad about stammerers. lage raho gf miljaege my wishes are with you

gorav datta

sachin said...

Oh Ashish! I am so disappointed.. Not a single girl recommended TISA to you?
Okay- this only means that we, in TISA, have to work harder and create a better impression on the world, especially girls!
As for you, you have truly displayed great courage! Keep it up and never give up hope..

J P Sunda said...

Well done Ashish for going out and breaking the walls that we create sometimes. People who deserve you will be able to look past your stammering and see all the goodness

Ashish Agarwal said...

Thanx buddies.....

To be honest, with time,i have become a polygamic personality; looking more than 1 partner at a time....

Now, i don't believe anymore that i am a one woman's MAN....so my search is going to continue on n on.......lol!!!

ANd, yes, TISA is still not so household name for stammering as it should be!!!

Mohit Jaiswal said...

Nice Post Ashish, enjoyed reading it..
hoping for something more and better from you, keep it up.. :) :)