hello everybody,today was a bad day for me...i stammer on a lot of ocassions(dealing with customer care,on a shop)even i try to do voluntary stammering at that time...but my stammering was not that severe as it used to be on old days....it suddenly takes my mind to think of those negative thoughts....but, i know it's a tough time for me...i have to control my emotions...i have not to be negative....every stammerer has some good and some bad days....i should focus on my goal...so plzz everyone reading this give me ur valueable comments....
Regards
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Hello Rajesh,
I can almost relate with your condition, and therefore, I can understand your pain and agony.
I also have some bad days, stuttery days , when my speech becomes worse. And so there also arrive days that brings crystal clear fluency to my speech. It depends on the various unknown factors.
But do not loose your hopes.
Be lively in every action you do, every task you accomplish. Try to achieve perfection in whatever you do. This will impart great feelings of joy and zeal to yourself.
Again, DON'T GIVE UP.
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WindStorm.
Dear Rajesh
This is a vicious cycle which no one is able to understand yet. Usually it’s repetitive in nature hence You have to make yourself tough during such times, don’t let stammer control your emotions, keep yourself engaged in some productive works..Spent more time in your hobbies, read motivational books, talk to your close friends or relatives..do anything that keep your mind busy.
Almost every PWS (Person who stammer) goes through this cycle (for me ..once in two every weeks) and this is the most depressed state of stammering.
Stay positive to your emotions
Regards
Great! If you can observe your thoughts and write about them like this- you can certainly start changing them for better, someday soon...
Also, I see in your post, that you are accepting the fact that somedays you WILL stammer (like anybody else).. If you can accept it, life will be so much more happier and productive..
You are on the right path- Just keep walking (and writing)..
"In a day, when you dont come across any problems - you can be sure that you are travelling in a wrong path".
-- swami vivekananda.
i must congratualte you for making full use of this blog. the main idea behind shg and tisa is to share and help yourself by helping others.
Dear Rajesh,
Thats how is the nature of stammering... Sometimes it just disappears and sometimes it comes back with a bang! Its like falling in a big pit. But you should have your ladder ready to come out. Now this ladder can be, SHG meetings, techniques, practice, writing blogs etc, etc. But what is important is, trying to climb the ladder and come out, and not fret and regret.
Write,write,write, run, dance, play...
Work hard...party hard....
Don't give a damn, just play your part.
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